We have sometimes done and said hurtful things to our spouses.
我们应该对所有人谦让,当然包括我们的配偶。
Of course we should behave like this toward everyone, certainly toward our spouses.
在这个问题上,我们向上帝和我们的配偶作出回应。
This applies to our relationship with God and with our spouses.
现在我们想要启发我们的配偶!
Now we want to be INSPIRED by our spouses!
有一件事很诱人,那就是告诫我们的配偶为什么他们会做出错误的决定。
One of the things that it is tempting to do,is to lecture our spouse as to why they are making the wrong decisions.
所以四年后,我们的配偶都欺骗了我们,现在我们到了。
So fourty years later both our spouses cheated on us and here we are.
我们的配偶,通常是以声调来解释我们的信息,而不是字句。
Our spouse will usually interpret our message based on our tone of voice, not the words we use.
对于我们这类人,我们的配偶和亲属必须十分体谅,因为我们的工作和职责排在第一位。
For people like us, our spouse, our family has to be very understanding because our job,our responsibility, comes first.
我们中的一些人是以“老式”的方式认识我们的配偶的,他们并不认为这一切都是老式的。
Some of us met our spouses the“old fashioned” way and didn't think it was all that old fashioned at all.
尊重/荣誉神,我们的配偶,和我们自己(按照上帝的话,正确地思考和行动这些事情).
Respect/honor for God, our spouse, and ourselves(Thinking and acting rightly about these things- in line with God's Word).
有边界也意味着我们讨论我们与我们的配偶,家人和朋友的来世遭遇,而没有预期他们将如何回应。
Having boundaries also means we discuss our afterlife encounters with our spouses, family and friends without having expectations about how they will respond.
上帝想要我们只跟我们的配偶联合,并且只能在结婚以后。
God wants us to have it with only one person- our spouse, only after we are married.
我们都需要停止自问我们的配偶“应该”对什么好,而是问她们“对”什么好。
We all need to stop asking ourselves what our spouses“should” be ok with, and instead ask what they“are” ok with.
我们可能会感到不安因为我们的配偶、朋友和亲戚的行为受挫或激怒不得不提高嗓门,不断重复自己。
We may feel upset because our spouse, friends and relatives act frustrated or angered by having to raise their voices and constantly repeat themselves.
我们每个人每天必须决定我们要爱,或者不爱我们的配偶。
Each of us must decide daily to love ornot to love our spouses.
我们可以从此得出结论,父母在优先权的顺序上应该排在神、我们的配偶以及我们的儿女之后。
We can conclude from this that parentsare next in the list of priorities after God, our spouses, and our children.
这是一件很诱人的事情,就是告诉我们的配偶为什么他们会做出错误的决定。
One of the things that it is tempting to do,is to lecture our spouse as to why they are making the wrong decisions.
我们不能控制我们的配偶,但在上帝的帮助下,我们确实能够控制我们的结局。
We can't control our spouse, but we do get to control our end of things- with God's help.
但是我们在婚姻中做了多少事情,不是因为我们一定要这么做,而是因为我们爱我们的配偶?
But how many things in marriage do we do,not because we necessarily want to do them but because we love our spouses?
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